Just because we are in a relationship doesn’t mean we have to give up our boundaries. In fact, we can choose to not be in a relationship. Whether it’s because of your job or because of a past relationship, you can choose to not be in a relationship.
This can be a good way to avoid cheating or sex while you’re trying to find a lasting relationship. If you can’t give up your boundaries, then you’re probably not looking for a relationship with someone who you can’t commit to.
In my view, the problem is that many people think boundaries are something that you need to compromise. However, I think many people don’t realize that boundaries are important. Boundaries are the one thing that allows us to stay in a relationship, yet remain our most important, intimate relationships. For example, if I had to choose between my husband and my best friend, I would choose my best friend.
One of the most common things I hear people say, “I have a friend that I can’t do anything with.” It’s true, we all have friends that we can’t do anything with. However, I think it’s important to understand that what we say about our friends is just what we think.
The problem is that people don’t realize what they say about their friends is just what they think. When we say something about someone that we think doesn’t make sense, we are basically telling them that they are wrong to have said that. If we are wrong, we should change it. So, when we say something that we think is not true, we are essentially saying that we think what our friend said is not true. And that is a huge problem.
If someone thinks I am wrong to be saying something, they are implicitly saying that I am right. If I am wrong to be saying something, I should change it. I have changed it many times, but not in a way that makes it true or false. So, it’s okay to say something that is not true to someone who is wrong.
Most of us are taught to say things such as “It’s not true that I will win a World Series of Poker tournament” or “It’s not true that I am a good person,” but the fact is that we are rarely taught how to say what we really mean. It is like being told that you should only say positive things when someone is right.
I think people should be taught that they should only say positive, true things when someone is wrong. This will help us to develop a better self-awareness. As we grow and learn to speak what we really mean and not just what we think we should, we will be more aware of our words and actions.
Another quote from a recent episode of the show, “I don’t like boundaries. I like being free,” was also a message to our younger selves. It means that being free and being good are the same thing and that there is no such thing as being good alone.
I get it, if you are a person who is always trying to fit in then you are probably a pretty big fish to be swimming in a small pond. This is what makes it so hard to get your head around.